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Four Secrets to Make a Boring Relationship Fun Again

Last Updated on August 23, 2019
by Emily Peoples

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Relationships at any stage require work. There is never really any point in a relationship where it’s okay to stop making an effort. If you find yourself frustrated with your current partner, here are four ways that teach you how to make a boring relationship fun again.

1. Don’t get stuck in a routine

Routines can make relationships predictable and uninteresting as the months and years go by. If you want to avoid your relationship going stale, shake up your routine regularly.

If you have had a date night every Friday night for the past six months, suggest doing something on Saturday instead. Since you probably also have things you normally do every single Saturday this will shake up your entire weekend routine.

You don’t need to rearrange every single thing in your lives, but in order to keep your relationship fresh and exciting, you don’t want everything to be predictable.

2. Focus on improving yourself

I don’t mean in a physical sense here although that can be important. Someone who takes the time to expand their horizons and grow is an interesting person.

It’s easy to sit around once you’re in a stable relationship because you’re comfortable and don’t feel the need for anything else. You will be a more fascinating partner if you continue to improve yourself the way you did before you were a couple.

Don’t give up your love of running, volunteering once a month, or taking courses to get you ahead at work.

A lot of women (and men!) abandon their passions when they become serious with someone. But this is a mistake.

No one wants to be solely responsible for someone else’s happiness so stay active with the things that made you interesting before.

3. Don’t let romance and intimacy take a back seat

When you become comfortable in a relationship, it’s normal for the romance to slow down.

You don’t dress up and go out as often. You sit on the couch with pizza and a movie instead of going out. You might even have sex less often than you did earlier in your relationship.

This kind of behavior can lead to feelings of friendship instead of romance. If you want to keep your relationship from growing boring make sure that you continue going on dates even if they aren’t as often as before.

Don’t let your intimacy and sex life suffer either.

4. Celebrate everything

If you’ve been together for years, you may have stopped celebrating the little things you celebrated at the beginning of your relationship such as your first date.

It’s important to celebrate anniversaries, birthdays, and holidays and create your own traditions.

You stop remembering those special moments you shared in the beginning when you stop celebrating them. Celebrate old moments and create new memories together as a couple.

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I hope these ideas have helped you to learn how to make a boring relationship fun again.

If you’re in a relationship that has begun to get stale or you just want to keep it from going that way, there are things you can do to spice things up again.

It’s important that you never stop trying when you’re in a relationship that you care about. The worst thing that can happen is that one or both of you become bored with each other and your life together.

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